As winter progresses, I watch this long spell of nearly-normal fade in the rear view mirror. It’s a horrible feeling, watching that image of the real me shrink and shrink as the bipolar hitchhiker takes over the wheel. I can feel the Vyvanse losing its grip and rolling under the tires. I worry that I’ve forgotten how to do this—how to manage a life instead of living it.
And, of course, all that is a story. I’ve promised to guard against telling stories.
So, let’s just say it’s an adjustment.
There is more depression and distorted thinking, more fibromyalgia pain and insomnia, more compulsive eating and anxiety. But, the truth is we all expected this, even while we hoped Vyvanse could beat back winter (we being my therapist, nurse practitioner/med provider, and me).
Miracle enough that an amphetamine meant to curb my eating disorder also managed to smooth out my moods for six months. I don’t want to get greedy. Six months of feeling joy and gratitude for my life, of sitting in the driver’s seat, can’t be minimized. Ever.
And all is not lost yet.
Vyvanse acted like a screen door, keeping the bipolarness on the front porch. But as soon as the drug flushed out of my system each day, the rapid cycling and mixed states poked their heads in and wanted coffee. They’re just pushier now. And obviously, they’ve been lifting weights this summer.
I couldn’t tell if V was helping at all the past few weeks. I just knew I was miserable the moment I woke up and couldn’t discern any difference throughout the day. So, I started taking V as soon as I got out of bed. Now, by the time I finish at the Y, I can feel a lift. The depression is still there, but quiet and more polite. Again, this seems huge.
I’m trying to use these moderate shifts of mood to prepare for the hairier, meaner moods that will crash through the door. I got groceries this morning and made two quiches (one to freeze). If this pattern holds, I’ll bake a chicken/wild rice dish tomorrow and stick it in the freezer, too. I can’t cook when I’m brain sick, so doing this feels smart and kind. I am nurturing and being nurtured—like being my own grandma.
This is all new territory. Mental illness tries to keep me from seeing that. It tells me all is lost and will forever be lost. But, that’s just a story.
The truth is—
—I’m on an Adventure.